Anal Sex Toys | Butt Plugs, Prostate Toys & More
As certified anal fans, we carry a huge collection of anal toys built for every experience level, from a first-time mini plug to advanced training sets and specialty steel designs. Anal play can open up a whole new world of pleasure and sensory experiences for people of any gender, the anus, rectum, and beyond are packed with nerve endings capable of spurring intense orgasms. Whether you're prepping, exploring solo, or adding something new to partnered play, this collection has you covered.
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Plugs — from beginner-friendly mini plugs to jeweled, weighted, and inflatable designs.
Prostate — curved massagers built specifically to target the p-spot, vibrating and non-vibrating.
Beads — graduated anal beads for building sensation gradually.
Tails — pet-play and fashion-forward designs, including real fur options.
Enemas — douches, bulbs, and cleansing kits for comfortable, confident prep.
Vibrating Anal Toys — app-controlled and motorized plugs, beads, and prostate toys.
Materials & Care
This collection spans silicone, stainless steel, and even leather, each with different care needs. Silicone is non-porous, flexible, and easy to clean with warm water and mild soap or a dedicated toy cleaner. Stainless steel designs (like our njoy and Spanked pieces) are dense, non-porous, and can be boiled for full sterilization. Leather accessories should be wiped clean and kept away from excessive moisture. Always pair silicone toys with a water-based lubricant, silicone-based lube will degrade silicone over time.
Anal Training & Beginner Sets
Anal training is about gradual progression, not jumping straight to a larger size. Graduated sets like the b-Vibe Butties Beginner Booty Bundle and the b-Vibe 3-Piece Anal Plug Training Kit let you move between sizes at a comfortable pace, look for multiple sizes, tapered shapes, and clearly listed dimensions.
App-Controlled & Remote Anal Toys
Connected anal toys, like the Lovense Hush 2, let you or a partner control vibration remotely through an app, useful for partnered play, long-distance relationships, and hands-free interaction. Browse Long-Distance Sex Toys for more app-controlled options.
Safety Basics
Always choose a toy with a flared base or secure retrieval point, the anal canal can draw objects inward, so anything inserted needs a way to be removed safely. Use plenty of lubricant, anal tissue doesn't self-lubricate the way other tissue does, and start smaller than you think you need to. If you're new to anal play or want a full walkthrough on prepping, cleaning, and training safely, our in-depth guide to anal training, stretching, and gaping covers the most commonly asked questions, from your first time to fisting and everything in between.
Frequently Asked Questions
What size anal toy should a beginner start with?
Start with something small, a mini plug or the smallest bead in a graduated set. You can always work up in size, but starting too large can make the experience uncomfortable rather than pleasurable.
Why does an anal toy need a flared base?
A flared base (or a secure handle/retrieval loop) prevents the toy from being pulled fully into the body. The anal canal can draw objects inward, so a secure retrieval point is a genuine safety requirement, not just a design preference.
Does Bondesque carry app-controlled anal toys?
Yes. The Lovense Hush 2 and other connected designs let you or a partner control stimulation remotely through an app.
What's the difference between a butt plug and anal beads?
A plug provides steady, sustained fullness, while anal beads use multiple connected sections to create changing sensation as they move in and out.
Do I need to clean myself before anal play?
Many people prefer to use an enema or douche beforehand for comfort and confidence, though it's not strictly required for every kind of anal play. Our anal training guide covers cleaning methods in detail.
What lubricant should I use for anal play?
A water-based lubricant is the safest default, especially with silicone toys. Use generously, since anal tissue needs more lubrication than other tissue types. For a full breakdown of water-based, silicone, hybrid, and specialty formulas, see our guide to the top 8 types of lube.
Are stainless steel anal toys safe?
Yes. Stainless steel is non-porous, easy to sterilize by boiling, and a popular choice for those who want a firmer, heavier sensation than silicone provides.
Can anyone enjoy anal play, regardless of gender?
Yes. The nerve-rich anatomy involved in anal stimulation can provide pleasure for people of any gender, it's not specific to any one anatomy.
Where can I buy anal toys near me?
Bondesque carries an extensive anal toy selection in our Minneapolis, MN store at 707 W. Lake Street, or shop online with nationwide shipping.
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Our Minneapolis sex shop carries a huge, carefully curated selection of anal toys, from beginner plugs to advanced training sets, all in stock and ready to ship.