• FREE SHIPPING OVER $250
  • 1-3 DAY DELIVERY
  • DISCREET SHIPPING
  • Curbside Pickup
Customer Support

Questions about a product or using our site? We are pleased to assist. You are welcome to email us at [email protected] or call our store at (612) 200-8350.

Frequently Asked Questions:

  1. How do I change an order I have already placed?
    • Orders that have been placed cannot be changed after they have been shipped. Your best option is to call our retail store at 612-200-8350 ASAP, and we may be able to help you change your order.

  2. Why should I shop at your online store?
    • We are a small, independent, woman-owned business that actively works to support and offer positive resources the kink community. Our team members are real people who are into the lifestyle and care about the work we do together. Our passion goes into everything we do, including how we treat and work to help our customers. 
  3. Can I return or exchange items?
    • Please view our [RETURN POLICY]. Unfortunately, some items are not eligible for return. These include:
      • Sex toys
      • Lubricants and body oils
      • Other adult products and novelties in packages which have been opened.

  4. Do you offer discreet shipping?
    • We ship via USPS and use standard USPS boxes. The return sender will be listed as "Black and Red."

  5. How long will it take for my order to ship?
    • We ship all orders by the next business day. Shipping times will vary based on your distance from our shipping location.

  6. What are your store hours?
    • Our physical retail shop is open 12pm-6pm Monday through Saturday.
  7. Where can I wear fashions purchased from Bondesque?
    • Many of our customers wear our fashions to nightclub events, play parties, restaurant dinners, or in the comfort of their own homes and dungeons. Bondesque fashions are a perfect fit for the dress code of our fetish parties, including the annual Rubber Ball USA -- one of the biggest fetish parties in North America!

  8. Where can I learn more about BDSM and kink?
    • We recommend our BDSM & Kink classes that we offer in partnership with Domina USA. For a full calendar and list of classes, visit www.dominausa.com.