BDSM & Bondage Restraints
Bondage restraints is one of the most common erotic fantasies that leads people to explore BDSM. Giving up control, or taking control, can add an exciting element to your play and open up many new scenarios to explore with your partner!
Bondage in BDSM
A fantastic entry point to BDSM, bondage is an exciting way to explore your dominance and submission fantasies. We carry gear suitable for all levels of experience and budgets. Our selection includes but is not limited to:
- Wrist and Ankle Cuffs
- Rope for Bondage and Suspension
- Bondage Hoods
- Spreader and Suspension Bars
- Collars and Leashes
- Bondage Tape
- Bondage Kits
Bondage is a versatile play that can be explored by itself or in tandem with many other fetishes and kinks. Explore our selection at our brick-and-mortar store or here online!
Frequently Asked Questions
I'm new to bondage. How do I get started?
We're happy to hear that you're curious about bondage! For beginners, we highly recommend starting with bondage kits, bondage tape, and/or cuffs. Eager to delve deeper? Explore these beginner-friendly ideas to add some zest to your experience!
Bondage kits typically include toys that will give you a variety of toys to help you explore a number of ways to play. Kits generally give you more bang for your buck, making them a great entry point.
If you aren't ready to buy a whole kit or you'd like more high-quality gear than your average bondage kit will provide, real leather wrist and ankle cuffs are an option to consider. Leather cuffs are typically more durable than the cuffs included in a bondage kit, making them a more long-term investment.
Bondage tape is also a great starter item that are most definitely not limited to bondage newbies. Bondage tape is electrostatic and only sticks to itself. You can make a large number of restraints (hand cuffs, mouth gags, blindfolds, etc.) and it is reusable! One of our favorite elements of bondage tape is how easily you can adjust and re-adjust your restraints as you make them.
You have so many types of restraints! What do they do and how would I use them?
We offer a wide variety of gear to fit a variety of fantasies and fetishes. Because there are so many different types of gear out there, we wrote a guide on the different types of gear are and how to use them.
How do I explore bondage safely?
Our guide to the different types of bondage gear does include essential safety tips! We also highly recommend these resources for more information:
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- Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns by Philip Miller and Molly Devon
- The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage by Midori
- The Duchy – great website for rope bondage
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About Bondesque
Bondesque is a LGBT- and woman-owned BDSM store founded on a passion for the BDSM lifestyle. Our store proudly offers all things BDSM – from BDSM basics to niche gear to fetish fashion. We offer our selection at our store in Minneapolis, MN as well as online. We only offer products that we would use ourselves! We value offering high-quality and inclusive products for everyone. Every member of our staff practices BDSM and offers unique knowledge on their favorite forms of BDSM play, fetishes, and kinks. We take pride in offering educational information that we've gathered, both professionally and personally. Explore our classes, blogs, and books for trustworthy and thorough education. Known amongst our community as a safe, welcoming, and educational hubbub, we have developed a strong relationship with kinksters all around the world over the past 9 years.