3 Kinky Gift Collections for Valentine's Day

Valentine's Day is a day of worship. Perhaps worship looks like massaging oil into your lover's skin before a sultry, candlelit photoshoot. Or maybe it's following your Mistress' orders: stand still and silent while your she whips you with a flogger. Whatever worship and reverence looks like for you, Valentine's Day is the perfect excuse for a long evening of sexy playtime.

Kinky Gifts for Newbies to Hardcore Players

Whether you're spending Valentine's Day with your play partner, lifelong lover, or any dynamic in between, this day was made for intimacy. Explore new kinky avenues or upgrade your current gear this Valentine's Day. 

Our staff at Bondesque curated a few kinky gift collections that will suit anyone's fancy. This year's collections include:

Beginner's Kink Collection

This set includes our staff-recommended gifts for beginners to kink & BDSM. Each gift in this collection is complementary to the other items, so you can easily pick and choose what interests you.

a kink must-have: blindfolds

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Soft Leather Blindfold

SHOP FOR $28

 

set the mood with a massage

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Massage Oil

SHOP FOR $24

Set the mood with fragrant body oils that make friction all the more sensual. Not only does an oil massage relax the receiving partner, it also builds tension, upping the excitement for the rest of the night's events. 

a loving spanking session

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I Love You Paddle

SHOP FOR $69.69

Spanking is not limited to hardcore play. The I Love You paddle is made with high-quality, real leather and features a padded side for soft, thuddy spanks and a flat side for satisfying slaps. Intimacy can look so many ways, and your partner proclaiming "I Love You" after every spank is most certainly one of them.

restrained to the bed

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Under-the-Bed Restraint Set

SHOP FOR $100

Keep your lover right where you want them with the Under-the-Bed Restraint Set. Explore playful positions and discover new dynamics as your evening progresses. With soft cuffs, easy-to-use clips, and adjustable straps, this set is both practical and comfortable for extended play sessions. Pair these restraints with a blindfold and sensory play for a sensual and soft bondage scene. 

male toy must-have

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The Male Rose

SHOP FOR $60

 

Whether you're spending Valentine's Day alone or with a lover, a textured and rotating vibrator is a fulfilling addition. The textured sleeve stimulates the head and most sensitive part of the shaft. Lube yourself up and the toy for even more satisfaction.

if you have a clitoris, you must have one of these!

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Liberty 2 Suction Toy

SHOP FOR $100

Clitoral suction toys are simply an absolute must-have in your treasure chest. The second edition of the Liberty features softer silicone and an upgrade to the suction. It's even travel-sized – just the perfect addition to your purse!

heighten your senses

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Ostrich Feather Tickler

SHOP FOR $11

There is truly unparalleled intimacy in discovering the secrets of your lover's body, and what better night to venture than Valentine's Day evening? These ticklers are made with soft, fluffy ostrich feathers that just might give your partner goosebumps! Ticklers pair nicely with restraints, blindfolds, and oil massages. 

you lead, I follow

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Leather Collar

SHOP FOR $85
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Leather Leash

SHOP FOR $32

Reinforce a dominant and submissive dynamic with a collar around their neck and strong chain leash, reminding each partner who belongs to who. This collar is made with real, durable leather and features three D-rings, leaving you room for creativity. Attach a high-quality chain leash and guide your partner where you want them to go. Whether that's between your legs or a different sex position, your wish is their command.

what's intimacy without a little dribble?

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Pitcher Wax Candles

SHOP FOR $24

 

Wax play is not only beautiful but also highly sensory. These candles are body-safe and low-temp, reducing the risk of harm. Give you partner an oil massage before dripping wax onto your lover's skin and watching each drop slowly glide down their skin. Finish the activity off with a sexy photoshoot in the soft glow of candlelight. 

Gifts for Long Distance Couples or a Sultry Night Out

For couples that plan to spend the night out on the town and want to add a spicy element to the evening, this list is loaded with discreet, wearable vibrators. For long distance couples, each toy in this list is app-controllable and can be controlled all the way across the world! Simply pair your toy with the manufacturer's app and you're ready for endless fun. 

a panty vibrator must

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The Moxie Panty Vibrator

SHOP FOR $140

The Moxie by We-Vibe is an app-controlled, wearable panty vibrator designed to clip snugly onto your underwear and worn under your clothes. Featuring powerful yet quiet vibrations, smooth silicone, and a rechargeable motor, the loads of app features are just the cherry on top.

a vibrating cock ring perfect for both partners

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The Bond Vibrating Cock Ring

SHOP FOR $130

Simply one of the best app-controlled cock rings on the market! The Bond is a stretchy silicone ring is designed to be worn on the shaft. Featuring powerful vibrations that can pleasure not only you but also your partner during penetrative sex, this ring is perfect for both partnered and solo play. If your partner is not within your reach this Valentine's Day, connect with them over the app and let them control your cock ring with thousands of vibration options. Don't know why cock rings are so great? Read up on all the benefits of wearing a cock ring in our blog "6 Reasons Why You Should Wear a Cock Ring".

hit both of the sweet spots at the same time

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The Chorus G-Spot & Clitoral Vibrator

SHOP FOR $210

The We-Vibe Chorus was made for simultaneous orgasms! This toy simulates the clitoris and g-spot at the same time with powerful vibrations. If that's not enough, this toy was also designed to be worn during penetrative sex so both you and your partner can share in the stimulation. The Chorus can be controlled with the app, featuring highly-customizable vibration options and long-distance control. It can also be controlled with a bluetooth remote that has a "squeeze response" feature – the harder you grip the remote, the stronger the vibrations.

g-spot orgasms anyone?

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The Lush G-Spot Vibrator

SHOP FOR $167
The Lush 3 is a classic g-spot vibrator that has maintained its incredible reputation for years. The curved shape fits snugly when inserted, targeting the g-spot specifically. If g-spot orgasms take you to new heights, the Lush will not disappoint. With a 5-hour battery life and a super quiet motor, this wearable vibrator is absolutely perfect for long nights out. 

you can never have too many butt plugs

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The Hush Vibrating Butt Plug

SHOP FOR $136
The Hush is a classic must-have. Whether you have a p-spot or a g-spot, the Hush's powerful vibrations deliver equally powerful pleasure. The app control makes it easy to use when inserted, and you can hand over control to anyone over any distance. Available in 4 sizes, you can easily choose a size that you're comfortable with or take on a bigger one!

it vibrates AND thrusts??

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The Vulse G-Spot Toy

SHOP FOR $130
You heard us right – this toy does it all!

Hardcore BDSM Gifts for Experienced Kinksters

For those who live the BDSM lifestyle, this gift list is for you. Upgrade your current gear collection or add something new. All gear listed here is durable, high-quality, and made for intense play. This staff-curated list features some of our tried-and-true gear.

time to deprive those senses!

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Pitcher Wax Candles

SHOP FOR $260

Experience complete sensory deprivation with the Lockdown Leather Hood. This hood is made with durable, soft leather, and the adjustable design ensures a perfectly tight fit. Pair this bondage hood with leather straps, giving them no option but to sit still and submit.

ready to be shackled

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Pitcher Wax Candles

SHOP FOR $160

The Spike Metal Wrist Shackles are a premium set of shackles that will keep your submissive mindful of their every movement. Featuring thick stainless steel and large spikes, these cuffs truly are as hardcore as they look. They can only be locked and unlocked using a small allen wrench, ensuring that your submissive has no easy opportunity for escape. 

out-of-commission

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Pitcher Wax Candles

SHOP FOR $200

The Leather Arm Binder is sure to keep your submissive in a....bind (we couldn't resist!). Made with high-quality leather, this binder is comfortable (enough) to wear during a play scene and will keep your submissive firmly restrained.

debilitating positions

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Pitcher Wax Candles

SHOP FOR $40

Keep your partner on their knees in a position of submission for as long as you please with the Enforcer. Its simple but effective design traps your submissive's balls in between the adjustable wooden panels safely. Whether you need an ottoman to throw your feet up on or a small table to place your favorite sex toys, the Enforcer can provide. 

classic gas mask

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Pitcher Wax Candles

SHOP FOR $50

Looking to be pounded mercilessly by your favorite toys? These high-quality harnesses made with durable, real leather are not only beautiful but also more affordable than other harnesses on the market. Designed with a wide corset backing and snaps for interchangeable o-rings, these harnesses include key features that make this a sustainable harness you'll love long past Valentine's Day!

choke me collar

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Pitcher Wax Candles

SHOP FOR $26

Whether you're new to electro play or need a few additional tens units, the Mystim Tension Lover will satisfy. Complete with one tens unit, four electrostim pads, two cords, batteries, and a manual, this kit has everything you need to play this Valentine's Day evening. One tens unit can control up to four compatible electrostim toys. Looking for gear other than pads? Explore other compatible stimulators here

give me marks

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Pitcher Wax Candles

SHOP FOR $93

There are so many ways to ride. Shut your submissive up with the Ride Me mouth gag and keep their mouth busy in other ways. Made with a thick leather strap and smooth silicone that are both durable and comfortable to use.

spiked ball stretcher

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Pitcher Wax Candles

SHOP FOR $115

Punisher is in the name but it's truly hard to discern just how mean this whip is until you're receiving its biting stings. The Punisher Whip features two thick, braided tails made with high-quality leather. The firm handle widens at the base for easy gripping so you can deliver the perfect strikes. 

Cherish Valentine's Day

Spend time cherishing your partner this Valentine's Day. We encourage you to slow down and take your time. Fill the evening with lustful activities and finish it off with a glass of wine, snuggling, and your favorite movie. We hope all of you have a kinky Valentine's!

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02 Feb 2022
Kana
Love all of the sensation play ideas for valentines night. Definitely will be giving this a try!
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