Sex toys can liven up the bedroom, start a sexual journey, explore new sensations, and so much more. We carry toys in a variety of price ranges with a commitment to premium quality, body-safe materials, satisfying power, ergonomic design, and durability.
Sex toys can liven up the bedroom, start a sexual journey, explore new sensations, and so much more. We carry adult toys in a variety of price ranges with a commitment to premium quality, body-safe materials, satisfying power, ergonomic design, and durability. Whether you're shopping for your first vibrator or expanding an established collection, our curated selection covers every category, use case, and experience level.
Vibrators — external, internal, dual-stimulation, air-pressure, thrusting, wands, and wearable designs.
Dildos — silicone, realistic, non-realistic, fantasy, and vibrating dildos in every shape and size.
Anal — plugs, prostate toys, beads, tails, enemas, and vibrating anal toys for every experience level.
Extra Large Dildos — huge and giant dildos from SquarePegToys, Hankey's Toys, Bad Dragon, and Spanked Toys.
Long Distance Sex Toys — app-controlled and remote toys for couples near or far apart.
Lube/Stimulation — water-based, silicone, and hybrid lubricants, plus toy cleaners and enhancers.
Sex Furniture — bondage furniture, sex swings, fucking machines, and Liberator positioning aids.
Cock Toys — cock rings, masturbators, pumps, stretchers, slings, and extenders.
We personally select the toys we carry. If we wouldn't use them ourselves, we won't sell them to you. We carry some of our favorite brands, and we think you just might like them too: Lovense, Satisfyer, We-Vibe, FemmeFunn, Hitachi Magic Wand, Le Wand, Womanizer, njoy, Gender X, and others.
There are so many sex toys out there, we definitely don't take a "one size fits all" approach. What sex toy fits your needs depends heavily on what you're looking for from a toy, your body, and your experience level.
We typically categorize toys by primary use: external, internal, and dual stimulation.
External: If you're looking to stimulate yourself externally, there are quite a few options. Amongst the most popular external stimulation toys are wands, clit suction toys, and versatile yet simple toys. Wands are great for those looking for versatile toys that feature deep, rumbly vibrations. Clit suction toys use air pressure technology to stimulate the clitoris without directly touching it, great at heightening sensitivity and pushing you over the edge over and over again. Simple vibrators can be used in many ways and vary in shapes and sizes, a great example is the bullet vibrator, but don't limit yourself, finger vibrators and handheld toys are popular too.
If you're on testosterone and need something that won't overstimulate you and will work with your changing anatomy, we recommend Body Kisses by Gender X and the Packer Gear FTM Stroker by CalExotics, both suction toys with larger openings than average, engineered specifically for people on T.
Internal: Internal stimulation sex toys are typically made to stimulate the g-spot, designed with a curve and sometimes texture to keep things exciting. If you're looking for plenty of g-spot stimulation, vibrating g-spot toys are a great option. If you like something more simple and great for partnered play, we recommend curved wands. If you don't want to do the work but still want to be stimulated, there are wearable and self-thrusting toys out there for you.
Dual Stimulation: Dual stimulation toys stimulate both the g-spot and clitoris at the same time, popular for those who want the best of both worlds in one toy.
Masculine toys span a similarly wide range, built around different types of stimulation.
Strokers & Masturbators: The most popular versions feature suction and a sleeve made of soft, squishy material that envelops the head and shaft. Some include textured sleeves, vibration, and even heating functions for a more realistic feel.
Cock Rings: Stretchy or rigid rings designed to wrap around the shaft, base, and/or balls, enhancing sensitivity and helping maintain firmness. For those interested in toys designed for the balls specifically, explore ball stretchers and slings, built to wrap around the balls and provide pain, pleasure, or both.
P-Spot Toys: Designed to pleasure the prostate internally and/or externally, some vibrate, some don't, and some can even be controlled with an app. Many prostate toys feature a curve built specifically to target the p-spot.
Simplicity is usually the best starting point. Look for straightforward controls, comfortable dimensions, easy cleaning, and body-safe materials. You don't need the most advanced toy to have a great experience, choose something that matches your interests rather than the number of features on the box.
Look for body-safe materials like platinum-cured or medical-grade silicone, ABS plastic, or stainless steel, non-porous, hypoallergenic, and easy to clean thoroughly between uses. Always pair silicone toys with a water-based lubricant, silicone-based lube can degrade silicone toys over time.
How to clean an adult toy depends on the toy, but as a general rule, wash with warm water and gentle soap. A dedicated toy cleaner is preferred since it's body-safe and gentle on all toy materials while still deeply cleaning bacteria. If the toy is fully waterproof, submerge it completely and lather with soap, then leave to dry or pat dry with a clean, soft towel. For non-waterproof or water-resistant toys, dampen a soft washcloth with warm water, lather the toy, rinse thoroughly with a clean, wet washcloth, and dry the same way.
For beginners, we typically recommend simpler toys so you can take your time paying attention to what feels good. Rabbit toys or bullet vibrators are common first toys, but there's no single perfect option, everyone's preferences are different.
Yes. We personally select every toy we carry with body-safe materials, satisfying power, and durability in mind, we won't sell anything we wouldn't use ourselves.
Toys with larger openings engineered specifically for changing anatomy work best, like Body Kisses by Gender X or the Packer Gear FTM Stroker by CalExotics, both designed to avoid overstimulation.
Some toys, like handheld vibrators or dildos, are built primarily for solo use. Couples toys, wearable vibrators, vibrating cock rings, remote-controlled and app-connected toys, are designed with shared or partnered use in mind, though many toys work well for both.
A water-based lubricant is the safest default for most toy materials, especially silicone. Avoid silicone-based lube with silicone toys, since it can degrade the material over time. For a full breakdown of water-based, silicone, hybrid, and specialty formulas, see our guide to the top 8 types of lube.
Wash with warm water and mild soap, or a dedicated toy cleaner. Fully waterproof toys can be submerged and lathered directly; non-waterproof toys should be wiped down with a damp, soapy washcloth instead.
Bondesque carries an extensive sex toy selection in our Minneapolis, MN store at 707 W. Lake Street, or shop online with nationwide shipping.
Our Minneapolis sex shop carries a carefully curated selection of vibrators, dildos, anal toys, masturbators, and more, all in stock and ready to ship. Not sure where to start? Reach out to us and we'll help you find the right toy for you.
