I fell in love this flogger after the first use! It is so soft and feels so amazing when makes contact with the skin! This has easily become the warm up and cool down flogger for my flogging scenes. It is a great way to warm up as it provides just enough attention getter and then after using my more stingy and thuddy floggers, using the feel me flogger at the end provides a nice soothing sensation to my partner as they come down from the other sensations. This is a must have!!!