About Bondesque
Online Adult Sex Toy, Bondage, and BDSM Shop based in Minneapolis, MN
Founded in 2013, Bondesque is a woman-owned BDSM and bondage store as well as kink education resource serving people across the United States.
Located in Minneapolis, Minnesota, Bondesque was built by experienced kink practitioners who believe adults deserve access to premium BDSM & bondage gear, body-safe sex toys, and ethical kink education.
Through our brick-and-mortar retail store and website, Bondesque ships high-quality BDSM gear and plenty of other adult toys discreetly throughout the United States.
Your Source for the Best BDSM Gear
We carry an extensive selection of gear, including:
- Leather restraints and cuffs
- Collars and D/s symbolic gear
- Premium dungeon furniture
- Paddles, floggers, and canes & crops
- Electro play equipment
- Chastity cages and locking devices
- Cock rings in silicone, leather, and stainless steel
- CBT tools including ball stretchers, parachutes, urethral sounds, and precision clamps
We prioritize offering a wide range of gear to meet all budgets and levels of experience, from beginners to experienced kinksters nationwide.
Rope Bondage & Shibari Resource
Rope bondage is one of the foundational practices within BDSM, and Bondesque proudly supports rope enthusiasts, educators, and serious practitioners.
We carry a wide variety of bondage rope options including:
- Hemp rope for traditional rope bondage
- Jute rope for shibari and suspension
- Silk shibari rope for smooth handling
- MFP nylon bondage rope
- Cotton rope for beginners
- Pre-treated rope for comfort and performance
Whether you are exploring beginner rope tying or advanced suspension bondage, we offer materials suitable for floor work, decorative ties, and suspension.
Bondesque also hosts rope bondage classes taught by TheDuchy, focusing on technique, safety, communication, and suspension fundamentals. Our rope education emphasizes risk awareness, anatomical knowledge, and ethical practice.
Premium Adult Sex Toy Shop
Bondesque is a comprehensive adult toy store offering body-safe vibrators and other sex toys from respected brands including:
- We-Vibe
- Lovense
- Hitachi
- FemmeFunn
- Womanizer
- LELO
- Dame
- Fun Factory
- b-Vibe
- nJoy
- Le Wand
- Fun Factory USA
- Oxballs
- Hankey’s Toys
- SquarePegToys
Our inventory includes:
- Wand massagers
- Clitoral suction devices
- G-spot vibrators
- Prostate massagers
- Couples’ toys
- Stainless steel pleasure tools
- Remote and app-controlled devices
Every product is selected for safety, reliability, and performance.
Latex Clothing In Stock – No Long Wait Times
Bondesque carries ready-to-wear latex clothing available for immediate shipping across the United States.
Our collection includes dresses, tops, jackets, shorts, pants, and accessories from global designers including:
- Vex Clothing
- POLYMORPHE
- Renee Masoomian
- Honour Clothing
- Latex101
- Peter Domenie
Unlike made-to-order retailers, our latex garments are in stock and ready to ship.
Expert Kink Education
As an education-focused resource, Bondesque is committed to offering kink education nationwide that is built on a foundation of safety, consent, sexual empowerment, and expertise. We offer weekly in-person BDSM classes and monthly educational blogs to share our knowledge to our community in Minneapolis, MN and across the entire United States.
Our philosophy emphasizes SSC (Safe, Sane, Consensual) and RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) frameworks to support informed exploration.
All classes are taught by renowned kink experts, professionals, and practitioners with decades of experience. We offer classes on a variety of topics, from broad crash-courses for beginners to niche classes for advanced players, including but not limited to:
- Introductory BDSM
- Rope Bondage and Suspension
- Cock & Ball Torture
- Female Domination
- Pet Play
- Roleplay & D/s Dynamics
- E-stim Play
In addition to weekly education, we host monthly Open Dungeon Meet & Greets, where adults in the Minnesota kink community can socialize, observe demonstrations, and engage in consensual play in a structured, respectful environment.
Our Educational Kink Blog
As part of our commitment to kink education, Bondesque publishes monthly educational blog articles on BDSM fundamentals, bondage techniques, consent & safety practices, latex and fetish fashion culture, advanced kinks, and reviews of toys & gear tested by our staff. All blogs are written by our staff with diverse backgrounds and many years of experience practicing a variety of kinks. We aim to offer articles that support both beginners and experienced players through practical advice, risk-aware perspectives, and community insight. Explore our blog here!
Private Dungeon Experiences
For couples seeking immersive, private exploration, Bondesque offers access to our Domina Dungeon experience, a fully equipped BDSM space featuring a huge collection of BDSM and bondage gear, bondage furniture, restraints, suspension equipment, and much more for intimate weekend getaways.Serving the Kink Community Since 2013
For over a decade, Bondesque has supported beginners, advanced practitioners, latex enthusiasts, rope players, couples exploring power exchange, and many others in the kink and BDSM community.
Whether shopping online or visiting our Minneapolis location, Bondesque provides trusted products, knowledgeable guidance, and community-driven education.
Store Hours
Monday: 12 PM - 7 PM
Tuesday: Closed, Workshops from 5PM - 9PM
Wednesday: 12 PM - 7 PM
Thursday: 12 PM - 7 PM, Monthly Meet & Greets from 6:30PM - 8:30PM
Friday: 12 PM - 7 PM
Saturday: 12 PM - 8 PM
Sunday: 12 PM - 6 PM
Frequently Asked Questions
General Questions
- Do you ship BDSM gear and adult toys nationwide?
- What is your return policy?
- I have a problem with my order. How do I contact you?
- Do you ship internationally?
- Can I try on clothing in store?
Product Support
- Can you help me find the best product for my needs?
- What type of rope is best for shibari?
- Do you sell suspension rope?
- What is the safest rope for beginners?
- Do you carry chastity cages and CBT gear?
- Do you sell body-safe vibrators?
- How do I measure myself for clothing and corsets?
- How do I take care of my latex?
General Questions
Do you ship BDSM gear and adult toys nationwide?
Yes. Bondesque ships throughout the United States in discreet packaging with no external branding. Our sender name is “Red and Black” as an added layer of privacy.
What is your return policy?
You can find our return policy here.
I have a problem with my order. How do I contact you?
If you’d like to return or exchange an item, please review our return policy. For additional support, you can call us at 612-200-8350 or email [email protected].
Do you ship internationally?
We do not offer international shipping at this time.
Can I try clothing on in store?
Yes, our Minneapolis location has dressing rooms to try on fetish clothing, including latex, corsets, PVC, vinyl, and leather wear. Clothing packaged in boxes is not available for try-on.
Product Support
Can you help me find the best product for my needs?
Yes, we’re happy to offer support and suggestions specific to what you’re looking for. We have plenty of articles on our blog that offer guidance and product suggestions. Our staff is also available for support in our store, over the phone, or email.
What type of rope is best for shibari?
Jute and hemp rope are commonly preferred for traditional shibari and suspension work due to their grip and structural integrity. Cotton and nylon ropes may be suitable for beginners practicing floor ties.
Do you sell suspension rope?
Yes. Bondesque carries rope appropriate for suspension bondage, along with educational resources focused on safety and technique.
What is the safest rope for beginners?
Cotton or soft MFP nylon rope is often recommended for beginners due to its comfort and ease of handling.
Do you carry chastity cages and CBT gear?
Yes. Bondesque offers metal and silicone chastity cages, cock rings, ball stretchers, urethral sounds, and a wide variety of cock and ball gear.
Do you sell body-safe vibrators?
Yes. We carry body-safe vibrators and adult toys from respected global brands.
How do I measure myself for clothing and corsets?
Please read our guide on measuring for clothing, corsets, and other BDSM gear.
How do I take care of my latex?
Please read our guide on latex care.