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Whether you're beginning your BDSM journey or an experienced practitioner, we offer educational books for all skill levels. It doesn't end there, we also offer fiction and non-fiction novels to leave you titillated.

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skyhorse Publishin, inc BDSM 101
skyhorse Publishin, inc
BDSM 101
From the mind that brought you the memoirs Elf Girl and Live Nude Elf comes BDSM...
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Fair Winds Press Rope Bondage Mini Book
Fair Winds Press
Rope Bondage Mini Book
The Bondage mini book is filled with everything you need to know about the basic...
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SCB D The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage
SCB D
The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage
Accomplished Japanese born educator and practitioner Midori shows step by step h...
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SCB D Cuffed, Tied, and Satisfied
SCB D
Cuffed, Tied, and Satisfied
If you’ve ever fantasized about being taken by your partner, dreamed of playing ...
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Greenery Press SM 101: A Realistic Introduction
Greenery Press
SM 101: A Realistic Introduction
In Jay Wiseman's SM 101, the long-taboo subject of consensual sadomasochism is a...
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Bednar Int. BDSM Contract by Lily F.
Bednar Int.
BDSM Contract by Lily F.
The negotiation process is a great way to open up communication. Written by an a...
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SCB D New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy
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New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy
An informational book with up to date life aspects, expectations and historical...
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Marrakech Express Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns | The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism
Marrakech Express
Screw The Roses, Send Me The Thorns | The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism
The book covers all the basics and and more, like negotiation, sex, endorphins, ...
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SCB D Flogging Book
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Flogging Book
Leatherman/educator Joseph W. Bean explains how to choose a flogger, negotiate a...
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SCB D New Topping Book
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New Topping Book
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Green Candy Press Foundations of Rope Bondage
Green Candy Press
Foundations of Rope Bondage
Foundations of Rope Bondage is the ultimate guide to rope bondage that is perfec...
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Quayside Publishing Sex Games Mini Book
Quayside Publishing
Sex Games Mini Book
With 50 erotic ideas and games to play, each game is fun and playful and provide...
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Penguin The T Guide
Penguin
The T Guide
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Penguin Ethical Slut | Third Edition:
Penguin
Ethical Slut | Third Edition:
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Anal Sex Basics
Anal Sex Basics
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BDSM Books 

Our curated selection of books is a rich resource for those interested in exploring BDSM and sexual wellness. Covering everything from gender expression to advanced shibari to BDSM negotiations, all of our educational texts are written by experts to teach you new techniques and expand your knowledge across a variety of topics including: 

Whatever aspect of sexuality you are interested in learning about, we have a book to guide you. Explore our book selection at our brick-and-mortar store or here online!

FAQs:

I'm curious about BDSM but have never explored it before. What are some of the books that you suggest? 

Some of the books we recommend for starting your exploration are BDSM 101 by Rev. Jen and SM 101 by Jay Wiseman. Both are comprehensive and popular guides for beginners that introduce readers to the foundations of BDSM.

Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns by Phillip Miller and Molly Devon is another classic resource that uses a lighthearted and conversational tone to walk the reader through the basics of exploring sadomasochistic relationships. The BDSM Contract is a great conversation starter for couples who are looking for a way to explore and express their kinky desires together.  

My partner and I want to try rope bondage – are there any books to show us how?

If you are interested in learning some simple rope knots to use in the bedroom 40 Knots and How to Tie Them by Lucy Davidson is a great starting point. For those looking for a more comprehensive guide, Foundations of Rope by theduchy is an incredible step-by-step rope manual.

Any suggestions on books about strap on play and pegging? 

We love the Adventurous Couple's Guide to Strap-On Sex  by Violet Blue for anyone interested in adding strap-on play to their repertoire. If you are thinking of exploring pegging, we also recommend The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure by Charlie Glickman PhD and Aislinn Emirzian. This accessible and practical guide will help you explore all kinds of safe and enjoyable anal play, including pegging.

For those who are interested in vaginal strap-on sex, we recommend The Good Vibrations Guide: The G Spot by Cathy Winks. Regardless of who you are topping we have books that are sure to help you maximize your partner’s pleasure as well as your own. 

We want to explore spanking in the bedroom. What are some techniques?  

If you are looking to explore some classic spanking, a great introductory book is Spanking for Lovers by Janet Hardy. If you are looking for a more intense impact play experience, we recommend checking out Flogging by Joseph W. Bean. Whatever your experience level or desired intensity, we have a book that can help you.  

I want to learn how to become a dominatrix. What books could help me?  

A great starting point is The Mistress Manual by Mistress Lorelei Powers. This witty and fun book is an inspirational guide to exploring your dominant side. The Sexually Dominant Woman by Lady Green is a friendly introduction for beginners who are feeling nervous about taking control. The New Topping Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy is a great manual for aspiring dominants of any gender and is inclusive of current terminology and issues, like navigating online relationships and safety.  

I want to explore my submissive side. What books do you recommend?  

Like it’s counterpart The New Topping Book, The New Bottoming Book by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy is an inclusive and accessible manual for beginners, covering everything from negotiations to headspace. This book is a great introduction for anyone interested in trying out a submissive role. Conquer Me by Kacie Cunningham is a friendly guide to asserting your desires and needs as a submissive within a BDSM relationship.  

I’m interested in exploring my gender expression. Do you have any resources to help? 

Yes! Whether you identify as transgender and are looking for a guide to help you navigate transition or you are interested in exploring crossdressing and sissification, we have great books on gender expression. The T Guide by Gottmik and Gigi Gorgeous is a fashion-forward and celebratory resource book for transgender people and allies.

Miss Vera's Cross Gender Fun for All by Dr. Veronica Vera is a great introductory tool for anyone wanting to play with their gender expression. She weaves stories from her many years running Miss Vera’s Finishing School with practical tips for a book that is both heartfelt and helpful. 

Do you have any books about navigating polyamory?

One of our most popular books about exploring polyamory is The Ethical Slut by Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton. The authors of this book cover topics such as communication, safety, and managing jealousy. Full of practical skills and prompts for introspection, this guidebook is one of the best introductions to open relationships and ethical non-monogamy. Open by Jenny Block and Opening Up by Tristan Taormino are both great resources for couples who are considering exploring non-monogamy and open marriage together.

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